Life experience and backpacks....
Here's the way that I look at life experience, good and bad. For some reason, I often make mental images of things and the following is my mental image of life experience. We all have a backpack we carry for our life experiences. I like to imagine that as I experience something (whether positive or negative), I just fold that experience up and pack it in my backpack. Some people have very new-looking, rather empty backpacks. Those are the people who haven't had a whole lot of things happen to them. Sure, they probably haven't faced the really crappy things, or even just the crappy things that a lot of us have (or perhaps, still will), but they also haven't faced all the really cool things that we have either! And some people, heaven help them, have very worn, but fairly empty backpacks. And if you look really closely at theirs, there is a big hole in the bottom. These are the people who don't learn the lesson that the life experience could teach them. They're the ones who are doomed to make the same mistake over and over because they don't learn from and remember what they are supposed to. I like to think of my backpack as being worn, stuffed full, covered with tons of patches sewn all over it from all the cool "places" (literally and figuratively) I've been. And you'll never see me without my backpack because I bring all those experiences to everything I say and do and think and to how I relate to people. What would life be without taste or smell? Sure, there are bad tastes and bad smells, but if you kept from experiencing simply for fear of the bad, you'd miss all the good, too.
What does your backpack look like?


2 comments:
Hmmm...my backpack...hmmm...
I think it might be fairly beat up, but not very. I'm pretty sure it would have some holes in it. I'm smart, but not always that in tune with "the universe" to learn from my mistakes quickly all the time. I have some experiences I wish I didn't have to go through, but I agree that they all shape how I act, react, say, think and love. Sometimes I need to detach from the negative experiences, though, so they don't cloud my judgement about something. I also need to remember to check my rose colored glasses at the door when making decisions about other things when all I want to see is the fun, good, great side of things.
Great question! :)
Francesca
Well of course I'm doing everything in my power here not to sing that silly Dora song about the backpack.
Mine looks like it's in pretty good condition with a couple rips and tears here and there.
Lovely illustration, Cyn. I need to pass it along to my sister who's backpack has a GAPING hole in the bottom. She's probably the one who's helped put the rips and tears in my pack as well.
All things work for the good though....
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